Military Emergency Leave and Red Cross Emergency Messages

Emergency leave is chargeable leave granted for a family emergency involving your household or immediate family. The American Red Cross verifies the emergency and notifies your command, but it does not grant leave. Your commander decides: unit commanders can authorize up to 30 days, and longer requests go to the Secretary of the Military Department or the USCG Commandant.

Use the checklist below to see whether your balance covers the leave and what to have ready when you call. If you are leaving service, see the terminal leave calculator; for leave after a birth or adoption, see military parental leave.

Maintained by Archie Chang · Checked against DoWI 1327.06 and redcross.org October 25, 2026 · Methodology & sources

Independent site. FedRateCalc is not affiliated with or endorsed by the American Red Cross, the Department of Defense (also styled the Department of War) or any military branch. This page summarizes DoD policy and Red Cross guidance as a general guide, not legal or personnel advice. Your commander decides whether you are approved for leave. If someone's life is in immediate danger, call 911.

Emergency leave checklist and leave balance check

Planning only. Your commander approves emergency leave, and your Service's rules and your own record can change the answer.

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Enter your leave balance and the days you expect to request. Both are required.

Gather this before you contact the Red Cross

The Hero Care Center, +1 877-272-7337, asks for:

Service member information

  • Full legal name
  • Rank/rating
  • Branch of service (Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard)
  • Social Security number or date of birth
  • Military unit address
  • Unit details (unit name, unit identification code, commanding officer name/contact, name of home base where the unit is stationed)

Information about the emergency

  • Name and contact for the immediate family member experiencing the emergency
  • Nature of the emergency
  • Where the emergency can be verified (hospital, doctor's office, funeral home)

How to send a Red Cross emergency message

  1. 1Gather the details. Have the service member's full legal name, rank/rating, branch, Social Security number or date of birth, and unit address ready, plus the nature of the emergency, the family member's name and contact, and where the emergency can be verified (hospital, doctor's office or funeral home). Deployed members also need unit details. The checklist above has the full list.
  2. 2Call the Hero Care Center. Call toll free at +1 877-272-7337. The Red Cross says the network is free and available 24/7/365. From overseas, it offers a free web-calling option from any smartphone, computer or tablet.
  3. 3Or use the online intake form. The form is for the death and critical illness or injury of a family member. For anything else, such as the birth of a child or a leave extension, the Red Cross asks you to call. Red Cross emergency communication page

If there is an immediate, life-threatening emergency, the Red Cross says to call 911. The Red Cross also offers a free Hero Care app with military resources.

What happens after you send the message

The Red Cross verifies the emergency, notifies the service member and gives the command a confidential report. It does not decide leave. The Red Cross says leave decisions are made by the service member's commander, and the verification is meant to let the commander decide with the best information available.

DoD policy is that when circumstances permit, emergency leave is granted for family emergencies involving your household or immediate family, and that swift and sensitive action is essential. The commander must also be satisfied that an emergency exists and that your presence can resolve or alleviate it. DoWI 1327.06 asks for help in verifying the emergency from the American Red Cross (for a family member not affiliated with DoW) or the Service personnel office nearest the emergency, and says delays in verification must not cause you to arrive too late for the purpose of the leave.

DoWI 1327.06 lists situations where emergency leave may be appropriate: a death in the household or immediate family, your presence benefiting a dying family member, a serious illness that must be met immediately and cannot be handled from your duty station, or a severe and unusual hardship if you do not return home.

Leave charging and advance leave

Emergency leave is chargeable leave: the days come out of your leave balance. A unit commander may authorize up to 30 days; requests over 30 days go to the Secretary of the Military Department concerned or the Commandant of the USCG.

If your balance runs out, advance leave is the tool for urgent or emergency situations. You must take all accrued leave first, you keep accruing pay, allowances and annual leave while on it, and it must be limited to the minimum needed. It is normally capped at the lesser of 30 days and the leave you will earn in the rest of your active service (or, on an extension, before your separation date), and anything over 30 days needs the Secretary or Commandant. If you separate while in advance status, it becomes excess leave, which is no-pay and may lead to collection of the pay and allowances you received. If you are close to separation, also see the terminal leave calculator and the military pay dates for when pay arrives.

If your spouse or child has died, DoWI 1327.06 para 3.11.j separately allows non-chargeable bereavement leave of up to 14 consecutive days, which can be combined with emergency, annual or advance leave. With 30 or more days of accrued leave, chargeable leave is charged until your balance is fewer than 30 days, when bereavement leave can begin.

There is also a non-chargeable emergency leave of absence under 10 U.S.C. 709: up to 14 days for a qualifying emergency, granted only once in a member's entire career and only to keep the member out of advance or excess leave status. The qualifying emergency must be verified by a source other than the member that the Secretary or Commandant considers objective and reliable, and must involve a medical condition of the immediate family or another hardship the Secretary or Commandant considers appropriate.

Travel

DoWI 1327.06 says emergency leave travel at U.S. Government expense, including travel for dependents in emergency situations, is authorized under DoDI 4515.13 and Chapter 4 of the Joint Travel Regulations. Authorized transportation costs are charged to the funds that support the unit's temporary duty travel, and leave will not be denied solely for lack of those funds. Time spent in emergency leave travel authorized at U.S. Government expense or on military aircraft is not charged to your leave account. Emergency leave is also not granted to raise your travel priority or offset personal travel costs.

This page does not summarize the Joint Travel Regulations themselves, so ask your command or travel office whether your trip qualifies. Separately, the Red Cross says military aid society assistance can include funds for emergency travel for eligible members.

National Guard and Reserve

The Red Cross lists activated members of the Guard and Reserve of all branches among those eligible for an emergency message. Its list does not mention members in drill status who are not on orders, so ask your unit how to handle an emergency during drill. The emergency leave paragraph of DoWI 1327.06 speaks of Service members in general and does not set a separate Guard or Reserve rule.

Military emergency leave questions

How does a Red Cross emergency message work for the military?

A family member contacts the American Red Cross Hero Care Network, by phone at +1 877-272-7337 or through its online intake form. The form is only for death and critical illness or injury of a family member; other messages are sent by phone. The Red Cross verifies the emergency, notifies the service member (even when the unit is deployed to an unknown location or on a ship at sea) and gives a confidential report to the service member's command. The Red Cross says this is an essential first step if leave is to be granted.

Does the Red Cross grant emergency leave?

No. The Red Cross says it does not authorize emergency leave. It verifies the emergency independently so the commander can make an informed decision, and leave decisions are made by the service member's commander.

Is military emergency leave charged against my leave balance?

Yes. DoWI 1327.06 says emergency leave is chargeable leave. The exception is time spent in emergency leave travel authorized at U.S. Government expense or on military aircraft, which is not charged to your leave account. A separate non-chargeable emergency leave of absence exists, but it is limited to 14 days, once in your entire career, and is granted by the Secretary of the Military Department or the USCG Commandant.

How many days of emergency leave can I get?

A unit commander may authorize up to 30 days of emergency leave. The Secretary of the Military Department concerned or the Commandant of the USCG may authorize requests over 30 days. DoWI 1327.06 says extensions to emergency leave will be granted when circumstances permit, but it does not say whether the 30-day limit counts across extensions; ask your command.

What if I do not have enough leave for the emergency?

Advance leave lets a member with limited or no accrued leave take leave for an urgent, personal or emergency situation. All accrued leave must be taken first, and advance leave is limited to the minimum needed. It is normally limited to the lesser of 30 days and the leave you will earn during the rest of your active service, and more than 30 days needs the Secretary or Commandant. If you separate while in advance leave status, it is treated as excess leave, a no-pay status that can lead to collection of pay and allowances.

Is there extra leave if my spouse or child dies?

Yes. DoWI 1327.06 para 3.11.j gives non-chargeable bereavement leave of up to 14 consecutive days on the death of your spouse or child, which a unit commander may grant. It can be combined with emergency, annual and advance leave, but unlike those it must be used within the period of bereavement, which runs from the date of death to no later than 14 days after the funeral, burial or memorial service. If you have 30 or more days of accrued leave, you are eligible once your balance is fewer than 30 days, and chargeable leave you are authorized in the meantime (such as emergency leave) is charged until then. It does not cover other relatives.

Who counts as immediate family for emergency leave?

DoWI 1327.06 defines immediate family as the service member's spouse, parents, persons who stood in loco parentis, siblings, children, the spouse's parents and siblings, and a sole surviving relative. Emergency leave is for emergencies involving your household or immediate family. A unit commander may also grant it for other relatives, such as grandparents who provided significant care, but the usual criteria do not apply and travel at U.S. Government expense is not authorized for those cases (para 3.10.c(7)). The Red Cross message form lists a spouse, parent, child/grandchild or grandparent as the family member in the emergency. The Red Cross can send a message about a grandparent, but that doesn't make it an immediate-family emergency under DoWI 3.10.c(3); your commander decides under 3.10.c(7).

What counts as a qualifying emergency?

DoWI 1327.06 says emergency leave may be appropriate when a member of your household or immediate family has died; your presence would contribute to the welfare of a dying family member; a serious illness imposes a demand on you that must be met immediately and cannot be handled from your duty station or by other means; or your failure to return home places a severe and unusual hardship on you, your household or your immediate family. Care must be taken to verify that an emergency exists and that your presence can resolve or alleviate it.

Who can receive a Red Cross emergency message?

The Red Cross lists active-duty Army, Marine Corps, Navy, Air Force, Space Force and Coast Guard members; activated members of the Guard and Reserve of all branches; DoD civilians employed by or under contract to the DoD and stationed outside the continental United States; service academy cadets and midshipmen and ROTC cadets on orders for training; and Merchant Mariners aboard a U.S. Naval Ship.

Does the government pay for emergency leave travel?

DoWI 1327.06 says emergency leave travel at U.S. Government expense, including travel for dependents in emergency situations, is authorized under DoDI 4515.13 and Chapter 4 of the Joint Travel Regulations. Authorized expenses are paid from the funds that support the member's unit travel, and leave will not be denied solely because those funds are short. Whether you qualify is decided under those rules by your command, so ask your unit or travel office.

Can the Red Cross help with travel costs?

The Red Cross says it connects eligible active-duty members, retirees and dependents to financial assistance from military aid societies, which can include funds for emergency travel, emergency food and shelter. If leave is approved, the Red Cross works with the service member's military aid society to facilitate a trip home if eligible and appropriate.

Can I send a message for a birth or a leave extension?

Yes, by phone. The Red Cross online intake form covers the death and critical illness or injury of a family member only; for other requests such as the birth of a child or a leave extension, call the Hero Care Center (or use the web-calling option if you are overseas). For leave after a birth, see military parental leave, which is a separate benefit.